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12/10/2013

Teaching Tuesday: Inclusion

This post was inspired by this powerful post from Lisa at Life As I Know It and the super-long comment I left on it. And also by some conversations I've overheard on the playground and at the gym. So. . .




The only kids who shouldn't be in mainstream classrooms are kids who are profoundly violent. I'm not talking about the first grader who routinely pushes kids out of the way to get to the swings first at recess, I'm talking about the second grader who throws chairs at classmates and bites teachers when they try to restrain him from throwing chairs.

When I taught, I had a non-verbal girl on the Autism Spectrum in my (regular ed) classroom for two years with no aide or helper for her. I had kids who were very developmentally delayed. I had kids who were gifted. I had kids who were dyslexic. I had kids who couldn't sleep at night because of gunfire. I had kids who were in foster care. I had kids who were being abused. I had kids with chronic diseases. I had kids who had been abused. I had kids who didn't get enough to eat. I had kids who had Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. I had kids who were so shy that they never spoke in class.

So when I hear about teachers in nice suburban areas who do have classroom aides and parent volunteers and supplies complaining about inclusion, or parents in those same suburban areas complaining about it, I want to smack them. Actually, when I hear any teachers or parents complaining about inclusion, I want to smack them.

The worst-behaved, most obnoxious class I ever had had few special needs students in it. The best class I ever had had the girl on the Autism Spectrum, a kid who was being abused, a kid who had been abused, a foster kid, a kid with a chronic disease, 3 kids who were developmentally delayed and a number of kids who didn't get enough to eat. That class? Also tested the best and a higher proportion of them is still in school than in the worst behaved class. Even though - on paper - they looked like a much more challenging group.

Obviously, my experiences do not a study make. But anyone who assumes that a kid with a learning difference, or a behavioral diagnosis, is somehow harder to teach than a "typical" child shouldn't be teaching. . .or having children. I'm not saying that a kid with, say, ADHD, isn't going to be a challenge in the classroom. But so is a kid whose parents are getting divorced. Or a kid whose parents never make her follow rules. Or a kid whose personality grates on your nerves. And you know what? There's (supposed to be, at least) a support team when a child has an IEP and a diagnosis. Most schools don't have a process in place for kids who don't get enough to eat or are adjusting to divorce or are extremely introverted.

I can hear a parent thinking, "But MY special snowflake is just fine. No learning or behavior differences, no family upheavals, given plenty of food and love. . .why should my special snowflake's teacher have to deal with all these other kids' issues when s/he should be paying attention to my special snowflake?"

First of all, your special snowflake probably doesn't need that much attention. Second of all, as long as there are other children in the room, your special snowflake is going to have to wait for the teacher's attention sometimes, whether the teacher is helping a developmentally delayed student or breaking up an argument over an indoor recess Jenga game, That's the nature of a classroom.

The more important concern here is what kind of person do you want your special snowflake to be? Tolerant? Kind? Open-minded? Ready to serve others? Thoughtful? All of those traits will be a lot harder for your kiddo to develop if everyone in the class has the exact same abilities s/he does. But if there are kids with differences who are accepted, who are assisted, who give assistance - isn't that going to teach your kid a lot more?

I once had a student who was very tough. A mean little girl, really. I tried bribes and consequences and all sorts of things that didn't help much. It wasn't until I had her help my student on the Autism Spectrum that she started to open up. That hadn't been my master plan AT ALL, I just needed some help with one day and tough girl was the closest, but damn if that didn't motivate her to actually be kind to people. She was still tough and it's not like she started doing her math homework, but she stopped bullying the other kids in the room and started looking out for the girl on the spectrum.

That's a win for inclusion right there, trust me. The thing about inclusion is that if the teacher goes into it with the attitude that the kids who are different are somehow making his/her job more difficult. . . .then his/her job WILL be more difficult. If the teacher goes in thinking, "Oh, Kids X, Y and Z have diagnoses and support in place, what a big help, " or "It's so great that I'll have Kid A in my class this year, he has an aide so there'll always be another adult in the room - woohoo, I can pee when I want!" then the teacher's job will just be the basic level of difficult it usually is.

This was not the cohesive rant I meant for it to be. . . . .but I'm posting it anyway. What's your take on inclusion? How did/does your school do it?

3/05/2007

Why I Am Not a Teacher Anymore

Taken from an email I sent the last year I taught elementary school. I was eight months pregnant with Lovebug. 



7:30am Arrive at school. Grade papers, change bulletin boards and write lesson plans.

8:15 am Crazy, drunk parent who is not allowed to go to my classroom
shows up in there anyway, but fortunately I am in office and my
principal coerces him into the cafeteria (which is where he is
supposed to go anyway, to watch his violent child).

8:20am Crazy, drunk parent returns to my room (leaving child to hit
people in cafeteria) while I am at my desk. I manage to slip past him
and go into the cafeteria to find my principal.

8:25am Students enter classroom. Must explain to special ed child that
she is going to have a change her routine today and she needs to stay
in the classroom.

8:26am See 8:25 am.

8:28am See 8:25am

8:50am Finally receive bus list that must be filled out for the field
trip that we are going on in 5 minutes.

9:00am Take class into freezing rain to get on the bus. Must stand
outside in the rain to break up fight before getting on the bus.

9:25am As we file into W. high school to watch the Junior
League of Johnson County perform Pinocchio, the only parent attending tells me that I
"look like shit".

10:00am The worst play I have ever seen, including elementary school
performances, begins.

10:45am As I nod off, I am startled by the sounds of violent vomiting
behind me. Student vomits all over his coat as well as the coat and
shirt of student sitting next to him. Only one other (also eight months pregnant) teacher (even
though there are five others there) offers to help me alert custodian,
get student cleaned up and move the entire class as quickly and
quietly as possible.

11:00am Ride bus back to school holding onto sick student. Fortunately he does not actually throw up on me.

11:10am Return to school to find out that they still haven't figured
out a schedule for school picture day, even though it IS school
picture day.

12:05pm Lunch is delayed. But do find out that we will be taking
pictures at 12:45pm. Also find out that there is an assembly at 1:30
pm that principal forgot to mention.

12:50pm Bring students to photographer, who is not ready for us. Play
Simon Says to practice things like step vs. jump and up vs. down.

1:10pm Begin pictures.

1:30pm Assembly delayed, but fortunately students are in library
skills and it is not my problem. Continue grading papers.

2:10pm Room called to bring students to assembly, but since I do not
have my students, I cannot follow this direction. Go look for
students in the gym. They are not there.

2:20pm Find students. Bring them to assembly. Remind three of them
that we do not hit people just because they are not walking fast
enough.

2:50pm Must go get students now. Am frightened. Assembly still not over.

3:20pm Assembly still going strong, even though the buses will leave in five minutes and no students are packed up to go.

3:23pm Send all my bus riders out of the assembly to get their homework, backpacks and coats on their own.

3:26pm Jog back to classroom with the rest of the students. Make sure all have homework, coats and bookbags.

3:31pm Drunk parent from this morning now looks very tired. Smells bad. I wave cheerfully to campus police officer to make him go away.

3:37pm Where is T.'s grandfather?

3:40pm Go inside to call T.'s grandfather.

3:48pm All of my students have now been picked up. I am leaving.

3:51pm See four students who have not been picked up. No one is waiting with them. Feel responsible because some of them are my former students. Decide to wait with them.

4:10pm All students are picked up. Leave.